I am doing something for a school project this semester, and was wondering if you would like to contribute. I'm asking people at my school, on various websites, and I am also looking at previous "research" that has been done. So..
What is your ideal partner like? In terms of both physical appearance and personality.
physical-good looking
personality-funny,smart, good personality, someone who doesnt blabber on and on, she carses about there health
personality - they HAVE to be theatrical. i don't know what it is, but the confidence that exudes is sooooo attractive.
literate. fairly intelligent. not self-absorbed.
personality: has to be sweet, kind, funny is a bonus, confident.
edit: decided to add a few more to my physical attractions:
I am attracted to people with a different ethnicity then me, and I like a guy to be taller.
physical: the taller darker and more handsome the better, he has to be bigger then me. no one shorter and weigh more
personality: has to mesh with my personality well, funny, quick witted, real, able to have fun, somewhat sarcastic, caring, honest
physically it has to be someone capable of being active.. they don't have to be talented at anything physical per se. I would also have to be attracted to them. :)
Peronsality... my ideal partner has a lot of ambition/passion (doesn't matter what, just SOMETHING) and he/she would also have to be willing to give and take in a relationship.
He/she would also have to be absolutely 100% loyal. I consider loyalty to be action..fantasies are natural.
Personality: It's all about his personality. He's got to be amusing when he makes a joke, serious in an important moment, and honest to himself and me. Maturity is key, because I am completely incapable of having a lasting relationship with someone who won't/doesn't grow up.
Physically, I prefer my guys to be fit or on the chubby side. Taller than I. I generally prefer dark hair. I love scruffy facial hair. (ex was 5'8" and only 135, blond and babyfaced-- so these definitely aren't requirements, hah) Sexiest man alive: Claudio Sanchez.
Personality-wise, definitely intelligent. Sweet. Laid-back definitely (although not too laid-back... that'd be why the above mentioned is an ex :P) NOT clingy or cocky. Mature. Good taste in music (honestly, I'd have trouble dating someone who constantly listens to country), similar beliefs religiously/politically.
Vegetarians are sexy. Irish or Scottish accent and I'm yours (:
Physically - Looks aren't first priority, but I do like someone tall and dark. I'd also like if they were stronger than me.
Personality - I'd like the general good points (kind, loyal, caring, blah blah), but I really love a sharp sense of witty humor and sarcasm.
I love accents too. Nothing floors me more than a Welsh or Australian accent.
Height. I love a guy 6 foot or taller. Eye color doesn't really matter but I love long hair-not really long but longish. Lean body with slight muscular build.
Funny guys. Really funny guys that could do stand-up comedy if they wanted. I like ones that can do voices and are constantly saying witty things. I'm very attracted to a guy if he can make me laugh. Sometimes it doesn't matter what he looks like.
Physical: tall, dark, lean.
Mental: intelligent and mature. i need someone as an equal; someone who won't laugh at stupid things and act like a teenager. Most important of all, he must be someone who knows how to treat girls properly, meaning taking you out to dates and stuff. I can't stand a guy who is completely clueless about what to do on valentines or their girlfriend's birthday.
physically- tall is a must since i'm almost 5'10. i hate really muscular guys. and i like longer hair, but some guys look nice with a short cut. kind of scruffy stubble can be nice. and honestly, i will not date a guy if his clothes suck :P
personality-wise, i'm attracted to artists and musicians (especially guys who play piano; for some reason that's extremely hot to me). or at least someone who is appreciative of art and music, like someone who won't be bored going to the art gallery with me for hours then sitting in the cafe discussing the pieces with a nice big cup of coffee (:
i'm with le_tigre (btw, love that band)--veg*nism is hot, haha.
oh, and one of my number one things is that a guy must have good hygiene and can't smell like feet.
personality wise - the biggest thing for me is just to accept -and not only that- love me for just the way I am. A lot of people who know me, really don't. I rock climb, and at my climbing gym the aquantices [sp?] there see me as perfect, people have even said to me "Well you're beautiful, thin, very smart, funny, nice, good at everything, gets along with everyone, you're perfect" but I'm NOT. Perfect doesn't exist! I have my good things, but I have flaws too, and I just want to be accepted for me! I'm not going through the changing myself for a guy ever again. The last guy I was with [Thomas] always said he loved me just the way I was, but he obviously didn't. He'd always comment on how he likes thicker girls [I'm 100lbs], girls with brown hair [at the time it was black], green eyes [mine are blue] etc. and I ended up changing for him. I always said I wouldn't be "that girl" who changed for a guy, but I guess love can change things. It wasn't until it was over that I realized that he lowered my self-confidence more than it already was. The things I loved about myself before -i.e my legs, my hair, my eyes, my smile - I truely started to hate through his influence.
Sorry that turned into a little rant. That ^^ is the main thing that I have to have, otherwise, I'd like someone who is intelligent. I am very smart [I'm going to college at 16 next year], my IQ is in the 140 range, and I really need to be able to hold a conversation with him. Also, seriously, he needs to have backbone. The old BF was virtually a jellyfish, which is why it ended. I can't stand guys who are completely spineless. Also he [of course] needs to be nice, generous, preferrably into scary movies, and won't take life too seriously.
Physically: I prefer someone taller than I am (I am 5'8") and I tend to go for athletic types. I have been attracted to a wide range of ethnicities but I usually go for men with darker hair and features.
Personality: I love confidence but absolutely cannot stand cockiness. If a guy treats other people (especially in restaurants, etc.) with disrespect, that's an automatic turn-off. I love to laugh and prefer a sense of humor. I want someone I can relax around, and if I feel nervous around a guy, something isn't right.
Physical - nice smile, healthy
Personality - decisive, not controlling
Btw, I find it hilarious that every woman says "tall" or "over 6 feet" when picking guys. I think the average height for a man is like 5'8" lol. You won't find me rejecting a girl for being too short (I am 6'1" btw)
Personality - understanding, nonjudegemental, accepting, flexible, outgoing, funny, independent (but still considers me)
Am I too demanding?
Physical; Tall, uh... not lean?, with strong hands, but it's not the deciding factor.
Personality; Decisive, jaded, dominant, confident, and protective, who understands my sense of humor and my fear of physical contact and will let me take care of them without fussing. Or with witty fussing that makes me smile. =]
Physically: They need to be muscularly built and toned. Clear skin. I prefer blonde guys, but im not overly fussed about hair. However, they must be well groomed, and dressed. TIDY.. I don't like glasses.. sorry, no offence anyone.
Personality: ''If a man can make a woman laugh, he can make her do anything" - Maryln Monroe. This is very true, they have to have a very good sense of humour. Have stories to tell, very talkitive and opinionated. They have to have similar interests to me.. no point in being with someone you have nothing in common with.
Not highly sensitive. Not afraid to express themselves, and be quite intellegent.. have knowledge and understanding of the word. Not niave..
Im just a fuss pot haha!
I didn't go out with a guy because I didnt like what he was wearing
LOL!
I also thought it was funny how almost every female said "tall". =P I mean, I'm attracted to height too, but I thought we were talking about mates, not..I don't know, dates? It's a definite requirement that I have to be attracted to a possible future mate, but I don't see where a set height comes in...
Physical : must be taller than me, although I"m 5'1", so not hard to beat, but yeah 5'8", and up would be awesome. I'm a sucker for a guy with beautiful eyes, and long hair.
Personality: smart, funny, he has to see the best in me
- Taller than me
- Amazing smile (If your a snaggle tooth I wont be able to look at nothing else)
- I like Dark hair (curly is a bonus!)
- Nice legs and butt (lol, what can I say? I like to grab guy's bums.)
- Big warm hands (to warm my little cold ones...)
- Non-chapped lips (I aint kissin no sand paper... yuk)
- Non- Dry hands ( dont have that nasty peeling skin on your knuckles. Its called Hand Cream.)
- A bit of a belly. Bones sticking in my side and super hard abs are not comfy. So a slight beer belly I guess.. :)
Personality:
- Quirky, but not crazy. Have your quirks, I like em
- Not Angry. I hate people who are easily angry and flip out for no reason. Very unstable
- Likes to be social and go out. Its Friday night, and I wanna do something, dont be a bummer!
- Be dominent, but have a soft side as well. Dont be afraid to show that you need lovin too
- Stong and supportive. Have a strong determination for certain things. Have something to drive for. Be it family or a sweet job or whatever.
- Be able to put up with me. Oh man, sometimes I'm such a dork, other times I just want to be alone, and other times I'm a cuddle bug. I'm not crazy, just... special... haha.
- Dont be afraid to share responsibilites. I dont mind paying more bills! Just also you can clean the bath tub once in a while...
Actually, looking at this now, its all my S.O... Thats funny.
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