Weight Gain

I am a young married woman, who have been trying to gain weight for a while now. I only recently founded this site and i started checking caloric intake on a daily basis. When I first started i was 100lbs....i have no idea what i weigh now because am afraid of being disppointed once again.

My husband reassures me that i am beautiful just the way i am...but sometimes i feel a bit insecure when i look around and see all these curvy and goodlooking women especially here in the Caribbean.

I want to always be attractive to my husband and i feel i can be that way by putting on at least 10lbs (at least some hips!) It is a struggle now that i am married as it was when i was single. I thought when women got married they were to automatically put on weight? I have realised that that was a myth.

Are there any other married women out there who can offer inspiration as i strive to be 10lbs heavier?

I am a very petite 28 yr. old married woman who has been trying to gain weight for a long time.  Been married 6 years. I am only about 90 lbs. I know how you feel seeing all the volumptous babes out there. Makes me feel insecure about myself. My hubby always says how much he loves the way I am and I don't need to gain weight. I would love to gain 10 lbs. also and be around 100 lbs. Just wish I could dictate where that weight would go.  I would love to look like a woman and not a teenage girl. Not for just my husband but for myself. It makes me so angry when people think I am so young.

Thank you southernchick for your reply. I am a 23yr old and have only been married for 6months. It is said that some people are made to be small like we are for life...i truly hope that we don't for i would love to look sexy in a pair of jeans one day. We would want to be sexually attractive to our husbands all the time.  Do you have any kids cause am hoping that being underweight would not interfer with my fertility. Being underweight is one thing but being married and underweight is another.